Analisis Isu dan Masalah Perkahwinan di Sarawak dari Tahun 2019 hingga 2023
Abstract
Perkahwinan masa kini menghadapi banyak cabaran. Sebuah kajian perpustakaan dilakukan bagi menganalisis isu dan permasalahan perkahwinan di Sarawak dari tahun 2019 hingga 2023. Melalui data statistik yang diperoleh dari Jabatan Agama Islam Sarawak, terdapat 5 punca utama masalah dan konflik rumah tangga iaitu tiada persefahaman antara pasangan, suami abai nafkah, masalah penagihan dadah, arak dan judi dalam kalangan pasangan, suami tidak bertanggungjawab dan suami atau isteri disyaki curang. Setiap isu dibincangkan dan dihuraikan dengan mengambil kira pandangan dari beberapa kaunselor yang mengendalikan sesi kaunseling perkahwinan bagi klien yang hadir memohon perkhidmatan kaunseling. Hasil kajian ini penting untuk merangka perancangan bagi peningkatan kualiti perkahwinan di Sarawak sama ada bagi tujuan meningkatkan kualiti dan mengurangkan kadar perceraian.
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